Many of us have asked ourselves and others this question. Why? How is it that this person or that person is doing what they are doing? Why are they doing this? Why did they take that? Why did they leave? You can imagine how many questions begin with "Why?" And at some point we have got to stop ourselves from asking this question and make the statement "Stop".
"Stop telling me that" "Stop coming around me." or "I stopped listening to your negative words."
Stop taking time out to worry about other peoples actions. Most of us never feel fulfilled with the question "Why?" So lets drop the Why and use Stop. People all over the world do wrong to themselves and to others, to us. Lets not get caught up in there reasons behind it and lets stop allowing their actions to affect us. It's tough at first but once we become adjusted to the idea that we are only in control of our own lives we could become a little bit happier with life in general.
People do things. And they certainly do things we may not approve of. Don't let that affect you. Release that hold you have on another persons life. And take hold of your own. Imagine what great things you can do when you cut those emotional ties to unnecessary questions. All those minutes you will save for your self. So that you can do something you always dreamed of.
Make your thoughts pleasant again. Remember some people will fight your new change in living because they want to have you sucked into their world of negative and drama. They want to see you unhappy and miserable. And some will put up a down right fight to keep you glued to their unfulfilled lives. But break free from them. No need to be hateful or rude. Break off your negative relations with love and kindness. Eventually they may see your new beautiful and happy life and follow suit. Some may not. And will always come knocking looking for a chance to latch onto you and drain every drop of your happiness.
Once you get to were you want to be you will realize you no longer have a use for asking "Why?" Since all of your actions will be true with good intentions.
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