According to the online Merriam-Webster dictionary,
the word Victim is a noun,
: a person who has been attacked, injured, robbed, or killed by someone else
: a person who is cheated or fooled by someone else
: someone or something that is harmed by an unpleasant event (such as an illness or accident)
Full Definition of VICTIM
1 :a living being sacrificed to the deity or in the performance of a religious rite
2 : one that is acted on and usually adversely affected by the force or agent< the schools are victims of the social system>: as
a( 1 ) : one that is injured, destroyed, or sacrificed under any of various conditions < a victim of cancer> <a victim of the auto crash> <a murder victim> ( 2 ) : One that is subject to oppression, hardship, or mistreatment <one that is victim of political attacks>
b : one that is tricked or duped < a cone man's victim
Definition of VICTIM for Students
1 : a person who is cheated, fooled or hurt by another
Now lets talk about Victim...
I mentioned the above source because I feel it is a reliable source.
I am not going to copy every single word do to the plagiarism issue there. And any one can go online and do an internet search on the word victim.
Any time a person subjects another person to mistreatment they are putting the person who is subject to their unnecessary bullshit in the position of victim.
Examples of mistreatment include but are not limited to: Name calling, bad mouthing, age shaming, gender shaming, social status shaming, educational status shaming, relationship status shaming, spreading rumors, making threats, directing vulgar language for the intent of causing hurt feelings or embarrassment. capturing audio, video, photo of a person with the intent to shame. Financial status shaming, social media shaming.
Trying to force a relative to leave someone or choose between a relative or a husband, wife, domestic partner.
Gossiping about a pregnant woman in efforts to bring negative views upon her. Sharing private information about a person without their permission. etc........
Now lets talk about bullies.
A bully will use the above motioned methods to bully a person which places the bullied into the victim status. And in turn will accuse the victim of acting like a victim. Or accuse the victim of being the bully. Truthfully it takes a tough person to tackle this situation without having it effect them deeply. There may be many attacks. And it may go on for a long time. A long time to me may be even longer or shorter for you.
A bully in my own opinion is insecure about the status of another. They are abusers. Most of the time I feel they are emotional abusers. By behaving this way they seem to have a hope of grasping some sort of control over the victim, by breaking them down and leaving them feeling helpless. And then they either continue the mistreatment in the same manor. or may begin to mind fuck the victim so they feel the victim needs them because they have them thinking now no one else wants them around.
They will brow beat the shit out of them if they speak up during any of the times they begin this mistreatment. They will accuse the victim of being the abuser. This is were the intense mind fucking come into play.
If they sense the victim is onto their shit they will intensify the abuse. And it could escalate into physical abuse.
It is so important to know a few things here. If you are a victim of bullying. It don't matter how old you are. You can be 50 or you can be 10. Bully exist across the board. You must remind yourself that you ARE valuable. You ARE the most valuable person in your life. No one will or can take care of you like you can. unless you are physically dependent on the care from others. You have a choice to make and you need to choose YOU!
It is ok to identify as a victim if you have been a victim to something that has effected you in a negative way. When someone accuses you of always acting like the victim when you actually are the victim. Shake that shit off. understand what you are going through. And become a survivor of intense bull shit. Now move on and live a happy life without those negative bullies. They're too demanding, and who really has time for that anyways.
I hope this helps those who read this looking for answers to the questions they have about being a victim. And if you come across some bad spelling in this piece just know I am a victim of bad grammar.
Be well Be blessed.
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