Do you remember when I wrote about "dating a younger man"? Well I'm here to write about what I found out on my own about it. How it feels to be loved by a younger man, not just in the bed, which isn't too bad, but how he cares for me and helped to open my mind to more possiblities. He also showed me why most younger men today prefer older women > 10 years.
Being with a younger man brought my more youthful side out. After years of sadness and hate had built up inside me he begun the thawing process by laying on the warmth as strong as possible. Yes that's right, he cared for me and desired me to love him so strongly that he never swayed even on my toughest days.
Every day is a good day with him. Of course the insecurities are there in my mind and occasionally they pop up. You know the ones us ladies encounter as we cross the finish line of another year. And as line after line apear here and there, we start the internal process of "damn the lines I see on my face, my hands and my neck." "I guess I should've passed on that bout of heavy cigarette smoking or the extra cocktails in my twenties." There's many reasons we beat our selves up, but I'm here to tell you, when a man loves you nothing stands in his way. He doesn't care, more than likely he doesn't see what you see. To him we are beautiful. A sophistication that can't be described in simple words, only felt. And he will show you, he will tread each obstacle as though they don't exist. And when family and friends throw daggers of doubt and disbelief to kill off the love he has for you, he will take them and the ones aimed for you as well.
Those people will stop being a strong presence in your lives. It can be a sad time when the ones he adores doesn't give the support that's the norm in every day families. Hes proud of the woman he loves and if he has children with her his pride is that much more. Loving who he loves shows great support and encourages a man like this to do great things for all those he loves, so if that support isn't there he is likely to shut them out of his life.
For the things my younger guy opened my eyes to; for him younger ladies have nothing to offer him. He wants me, I'm stable, caring, attentive and affectionate, and I love him like he loves me. That includes loving his family too. I don't allow drama to creep into our cozy little world of happiness, not by anyone and gratefully we have encountered lots of love and support from most almost all on both sides. Friend's and family.
There's something wrong with a lot of the girls in their twenties now. They are dramatic, trifling and needy. I see that they lack self respect and class. And sad to say some of their mothers are the same. He also took me by the hand and showed me that he is a good man, and wants to be in my life. That he would never lower his standards by acting like the idiots of my past. He showed me I'm lovable, and told me too.
Now there's those haters too, you know, because of the unconventional way we are in love..
So I'm asking, "what's the big deal? So what, I'm older, a lot older. My self and other women like me should be treated with respect it's not necessary to trash talk us because of our age. We're still capable of loving and being loved. And we deserve the room to defend our selves when constantly having our character defamed. Grown women should uplift and support each other. Not treat them badly for any reason."
And for the younger ladies out there. If a man doesn't want you don't lower yourself and lose your dignity by throwing yourself at a man who lacks the desire you wish he had for you.
It makes me sad to see pretty girls acting thirsty for a man that don't even know you exist. Hold your head up thirsty girls the right one will show up when you grow up.
For family that can't handle it, it's not your life to handle so mind your business and focus on your internal affairs. The home you keep should be on your highest priorities. Stop wasting your time and energy on causing hurt feelings in those you care about. Dirt talking the woman in you son, brother, cousin or uncles life is hurting him too.
Stop it or you will miss out on life's greatest things.
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