We have a problem these days parents. It's pretty sad and miserable. I cant say I haven't been like this either. With all the new technology out there today and always improving our ability to hold steadfast in certain situations has diminished. Even the ol' granny's and Papas have shown signs of this behavior. Loosing what honor we all once had. When were faced with a challenge we are seeking a easy way out and most often at the expense of another.
Were turning our backs on each other, lying , deceiving, destroying what relationships we have.
And our children are watching. Our behavior is much like a toddler that wants candy and is still learning
about patience. So they throw fits to get what ever it is they want regardless of were they are and who they're with. We are acting this way in our daily activities. And when we don't reach a certain goal by a certain time we seek a fast way to the finish line.
We have been destroying ourselves through social media. Attacking others and ruining families with technology.
I see that we have been blessed with such amazing things created by us why ruin it. How about we build more of it in a healthier way.
Use it to start school, or finish up that degree you've been waiting to finish. Use it to build a business or happy relations. Show your self and your children that using an easier method to complete your goals can be positive and cause no harm to others.
And when we're in that line wherever it may be. Keep a smile on your face . Try not to throw a fit after a five
minute wait. (Yes, even for me this is hard.)
And with personal family matters. Lead by example. If your relationship isn't working, act with honor. Don't try to replace the other parent with a new partner Ever. If you have two loving parents and they are no longer able to stay in a healthy commitment with each other romantically. Then change it up. Become a couple of parents that live separate but maintain a healthy partnership in parenting.
If you decide to take a new partner in love then do it with honor.
We don't want our children growing up full of resentment that you may not see at the moment. Isolating a child from there beloved parent either or. Don't matter which one. Is traumatizing to both the child and the parent.
And others are effected by this quick fix behavior like our Aunts,Uncle siblings and friends as well as grandmas and grandpas.
Trying to replace a parent is one of the worst things a parent could do that breaks not only the heart but also the spirit of trust and love in a child. Try to imagine what your child is thinking.
"Why is mommy/daddy gone? why don't they call me? Why don't they want to see me? Do they love me anymore? They probably forgot about me."
So with all this technology lets use it to keep parents and children connected. Showing a child that one can make it through sad times is important but avoid inflicting the sadness for your personal gain.
And shy away from slandering the other parent. This also hurts children. Since they love both parents wholeheartedly it's hard for them to understand your anger.
We don't want our children doing these things to people they love. So why do we?
Keeping your honor is preserving it for your children. They will learn how to live when they are sad and feel
week . And restless when out of work or antsy before they have graduated college. They will honor them selves and those they cherish. And will be able to maintain a solid foundation in every relationship they undertake and commitment they make.
Remember to think of your child this Holiday Season. Remember what's in their hearts.
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