For most the dating pool is pretty small once you reach your thirties. However there seems to be a growing trend of younger men seeking a relationship with older women. There are some pro and cons to this. Most of the time women hold onto the negative thoughts that play into this type of relationship but it doesn't have to be this way. There are plenty of loving couples who pushed the boundaries that society has set for dating. I think most see it as odd when a younger man accompanies the older woman but its not odd at all. Men want to be loved and desire stability and most likely see this with an older woman. Usually depending on the woman she may be quite successful, independent and not living in her parents home. I think were the problems come from when a younger man gets into a relationship with an older woman lets say ten years difference is the insecurity of the man. He may feel as though she is too independent for him and he don't have anything to offer her. Believe me this is not true. Older women enjoy dating a younger man. Since they can keep up with them. Just because the older woman may surpass her male counterpart in age by a few years does not mean shes old. Nor cripple. It just means she is well seasoned and ready to live life. She also seeks the same stability that any other human seeks. And is more understanding and patient.
Don't sweat it when friends and family or even strangers question your relationship. You're not dating them. And let your man know you appreciate him and he is wanted and needed.
Because I find many times that if a man doesn't feel as though he is providing something for the relationship besides intimacy he backs away especially when he feels he is catching feelings for his lady and fears she may not be feeling the same for him.
So id say its ok to give it a try. Of course there's natural laws and rules to the dating game as far as age goes. Keep it realistic and enjoy life.
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