I can't stress this enough. Meddling.. meddling in someone's life can bring harsh repercussions against the meddler. Some people get so caught up in their own desire to self fulfill, perhaps it's the thrill of coming close to a delicate situation, or the idea that they have a little piece of that persons life in the palm of their hands or should I say in their social media inbox or texts.
Tipping your toes into a hot mess will only make it effect you. So if you begin to gain an interest out of no where into the delicate strings of someone's personal matters I hope you pause and regroup.
Find your deepest meaning, desires and what motivates before you go any further. Is this %100 pure and honest.
If it's not, then it's best to stay away. The emotional trauma that this person may have could be rekindled once you emerge yourself into the lives of a broken person.
Think about you're own beliefs for a moment.. Do you prefer privacy? Would you want someone to have an encounter with your life that's so sensitive with the possibility of stirring the pot? Would you want that person to be %100 transparent. Trusting in full effect. That's a lot to ask of another person isn't it. Well keep in mind that it's important that when we reach out to the people in our lives in an effort to fullfill a purpose other than our own need, you have to be a good person to the core. YOU REALLY NEED TO CARE. The need for attention and drama seeking behaviors most certainly should be left far behind. Continue to reevaluate before committing to anything that is private for any one, ask your self what do I think, feel, and desire FOR this person other than myself.
If any momentary thoughts or feeling arise that are not of pure goodness then Stay Away!
You will only cause more harm.
You truly don't know what your are doing to this person. And if you meddle in someones life and you treat them poorly or talk down to them. You should be ashamed of yourself. Your extreme insecurities got you twisted. Be Blessed, Be Better People.
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